Do You Have to Love Yourself?
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The happiness will come towards you if you love yourself. Stay away from being silly all the times. Do not ever give a space in your mind, even a slightest spot, that you are nobody. That you are nothing compared to the other people around you. Think positive! Then the happiness is there for you. Do not argue with yourself about how dumb you are. How unhappy you are. These kind of feelings will bring you far away from being appreciated by others. Don’t do that. Ever!
If
your mind bothering you and giving you the opinion that you don’t deserve to be among the people you know because they are all smarter than you, more professional than you,
ignore it! Do not bother about it! In here you have to be proud of yourself. Do
not ever under-estimate yourself. Show off who you are wisely. Let them
surprisingly notice your confidence. Encourage yourself and deep in
your heart and mind you have to scream very loud that you are not what they’ve thought about. You are somebody. You
know exactly who you are. You are now a better individual than the others. By
the time you've got yourself back, give them smile. A gentle smile. They will smile at you in return.
When
you start to love yourself each day, unpredictably, you will be surprised facing the result of yourself – that is -- your
lives almost totally get better and
better. You are really feel much fun and happiness is there along with you. As said previously you have to be proud of
yourself. Do not compare what you are or
who you are with other people. The God Almighty has created all human-beings in
a different shape, appearance, size and character. If you do not satisfy of
what you are and who you are, then nobody will.
You
ought to change the way of your thought about physical appearance of
yours. You have to be grateful to the Creator for what
He has created you. You have to give yourself a very, very deep appreciation
for who you are. Accept the difference of yourself from others. Why?
Because you are special.
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The
important thing is not the physical appearance that matter, but how you treat
others with good and pleasant attitude, sincere, and not pretending to be
nice to others. You can do things that mentioned above – be nice, be sincere,
be honest to people around you, only if you love yourself. You do accept all
the different parts of yourself, even the things you may not do so well. No
matter who you are you have to be proud of yourself – in other
words you can say – you have to own in your heart the beauty of mind.
As
an example, you are baking a cake without following the recipe from the Chef
precisely, what will happen then? The cake were cooked unsuccessfully, the
taste is not so delicious, the shape is so bad. So the key is you should follow the right
recipe to make the cake cooked beautifully and having an awesome taste.
Everything has to be learned and so, do the same with you -- learn how to love yourself to make you happy. It is very simple – change the way you judge
other people from your point of view. Look at yourself! It might be you,
yourself, who ought to change. If you think about others positively – then you’ll
get the feedback from them.
You
have to change anything you don’t like
staying alive in your personality and start getting rid off it. If you don’t have any willingness to love yourself
right-away, today, you are then not going to love yourself tomorrow. Not even
for the rest of your lives. You will realize whatever excuses you're having
today, it's still there tomorrow, or maybe you will have the same excuses for the
forthcoming ten or twenty years or even perhaps for 30 years to come. As time goes by, this will stay in your entire life, very tight holding on to
the same excuses. Then you will become totally an introvert person.You don't appreciate your life and seems no gratitute to the Creator as well. Poor you.
Furthermore,
if you think that you are not as smart as other people, not to worry too much
about that. You are able to improve your skill and knowledge that will
make others proud of you. Why is it? Of course, one of the most important
reasons that you have to do is building your support and enthusiasm to improve
the hiding capabilities of yours. Again, why is it? Because you love yourself, there’s no doubt other people
will love you too.
Don't stop learning and dig more knowledge to improve your skill gradually. Encouraging yourself to develop your mind is number one to think of. You can do it through start building a communication or a conversation with people as many chances as you are able to. Be happy to get contact with people. If you are reluctant to choose what's the best for your life then nobody will. Hide your pride, throw away your ego, start to make friends. Be a humble, amiable person. It is a beauty of your mind that will be appreciated by others -- not your physical extra-ordinary look or your gorgeous appearance. Then you are proud to give the answer to the above mentioned title of my posting: Do You Have to Love Yourself? Yes! I do. I love me!
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Don't stop learning and dig more knowledge to improve your skill gradually. Encouraging yourself to develop your mind is number one to think of. You can do it through start building a communication or a conversation with people as many chances as you are able to. Be happy to get contact with people. If you are reluctant to choose what's the best for your life then nobody will. Hide your pride, throw away your ego, start to make friends. Be a humble, amiable person. It is a beauty of your mind that will be appreciated by others -- not your physical extra-ordinary look or your gorgeous appearance. Then you are proud to give the answer to the above mentioned title of my posting: Do You Have to Love Yourself? Yes! I do. I love me!
Yes Bunda, we need to encourage ourselves.I like your words: hide your pride and throw away your ego. That's very difficult thing to do, but we must do in order for us to improve ourselves. The difficult thing is to fight with ourselves.
BalasHapusLove to read the article bunda ... Very well thought and written. Thanks for sharing.
BalasHapus"Love yourself" jd ingat lagunya justin bieber bun...
BalasHapusKeren postnya... ajarin nunu nulis postingan berbahasa inggris dong bun ^^
Answering your question, yes! I do love myself. If we think ourselves are bad, then it will be like that. In other hand, if we think we're great, then we will be great. We've to get out there and do it, rather than just think about how we want ourselves to be. There's really no excuse or constraint within a reason. Life could be end at any moment. We don't be alive to regret. We should ask ourselves, "Do we want to die without doing the things that we have wanted to do like loving and taking care of ourselves?"
BalasHapusBunda, you're my inspiration. Love you.
Warm regards,
Zia
I do love myself Bunda thanks for reminding us :)
BalasHapusI can't agree more. Everything starts with ourselves including love. If we don't know how to love ourselves, how can we know to love others?
BalasHapusAh, like this article, Bunda. For a long time, I always love my self.
BalasHapusBunda, I answer you question not more, only this.
Love me, love me, love me...
BalasHapusAs a busy mother sometimes I fail to love myself due to loving my kids more.
But yes. I will love them more and more if I give the chance to love myself.
Thanks for sharing your motivation, Bunda.
Love yourself by loving others
BalasHapusThank you for reminding us Maam
Salam saya
I love myself so much, Bunda. Alhamdulillah. But, I wasn't a confident guy. Just after consistently writing blog, and then some of my books get published, my confidence growing and growing. And I think I should love myself for that. In the end, I finally found out that loving ourselves should be unconditional.
BalasHapusIndeed! that is why they always say that happiness comes from within. Once you love yourself and feel grateful, then the world will follow suit :)
BalasHapus